No, you don't owe me an email !! ::hands Gilly Get-Out-Of-Email-Free card::

And worrying about somebody you love is hard on a person, added to everything else you're going through; I say this as one who got physically felled big-time by stress herself, lately -- just, take it easy when you can. ::hugs you::

(And things are better here again, for now at least. And I'm feeling a hell of a lot better than I did for weeks, so I'm sending you *strong* sturdy strengthening hugs. :-))