P.S. -- I'm not actually checking one of the ticky boxes on the poll because I agree with all three answers at the same time, at least in some small part; and while my main answer is probably "Whatever works for you" tiny percentages of my brain are chasing around shrieking "No!" and "Yes!" at each other.

::unhelpful opinion from a person who sees -- in way too many circumstances-- a million shades of grey gray::