Ah... tbh, I really don't remember how I came to friend you; I probably just saw you around a lot on other friend's ljs - but I'm happy I did (and the people I'm thinking of giving up on are ones I friended long before you and it just feels like time - I'm not ditching them all; some are just BNFs with massive flists and that's fair enough, but others aren't.)

Sorry you've been going through a bad time too.