I've started the process of pruning my flist.

[panik]

Really, it's getting awfully crowded and there are a lot of people here who don't ever post or probably even read or with whom I no longer have much in common, or share much in the way of opinions and attitudes, or else I friended a long time ago but they never friended me back so... I'm guessing they want to leave as much as I need to reduce the size of m'flist but are much too nice and polite to say so.

Anyway, it's almost spring and it's time. I'm not pruning much, just a little...

If you've found yourself removed and care,, I'm more than happy to have you stay - just leave a comment and I'll re-friend you.

I'm just doing a litle spring cleaning, both in RL and LJ-life. It's nothing personal.

ETA: Remaining flist (*g*) - where do you stand on people who don't friend you back? There are quite a few on my flist. I've ditched some but there are others that are friends of friends, that I see regularly around the place - mostve been on my flist a good long while and haven't returned the compliment so, presumably, don't care to have me around...? I'm not sure I want to stay friended to someone who clearly doesn't want the same from me,  but I don't want to offend or seem like I'm flouncing...? Man... This is getting complicated. *g*

Comments

[bumpkin-is.livejournal.com]

where do you stand on people who don't friend you back?

Well... I pout!

Lol, nah seriously, I friended them for a reason so generally I just don't worry overmuch if they never friend me back. But then if the reason I friended them is gone, and has been gone for a while... I will defriend if they never friended me back. No give and take, no need for loyalty. IMHO... which can count for little or much whichever way you want to take it. :D

have fun pruning,
Marns
~pN

[gillyp.livejournal.com]

I've never worried about people not friending me ever, but I really need to cut my flist because I can't spend as much time here as previously and I can't keep up - it seems obvious to start with people who no longer share interests and who I friended a long time ago but never friended back.


have fun pruning
Oh, it's no fun at all, none; it just has to be done.