panik: (Androzani)
panik ([personal profile] panik) wrote2008-02-20 11:32 am
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I've started the process of pruning my flist.

Really, it's getting awfully crowded and there are a lot of people here who don't ever post or probably even read or with whom I no longer have much in common, or share much in the way of opinions and attitudes, or else I friended a long time ago but they never friended me back so... I'm guessing they want to leave as much as I need to reduce the size of m'flist but are much too nice and polite to say so.

Anyway, it's almost spring and it's time. I'm not pruning much, just a little...

If you've found yourself removed and care,, I'm more than happy to have you stay - just leave a comment and I'll re-friend you.

I'm just doing a litle spring cleaning, both in RL and LJ-life. It's nothing personal.

ETA: Remaining flist (*g*) - where do you stand on people who don't friend you back? There are quite a few on my flist. I've ditched some but there are others that are friends of friends, that I see regularly around the place - mostve been on my flist a good long while and haven't returned the compliment so, presumably, don't care to have me around...? I'm not sure I want to stay friended to someone who clearly doesn't want the same from me,  but I don't want to offend or seem like I'm flouncing...? Man... This is getting complicated. *g*

[identity profile] miwahni.livejournal.com 2008-02-21 12:10 pm (UTC)(link)
where do you stand on people who don't friend you back?
If the original reason for friending remains then I'll keep them on my flist. I don't expect to be friended in return, although I get kinda insecure and start checking my deodorant if it doesn't happen.

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2008-02-21 12:23 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL. Yeah... I've been friended to some people for so long and they've never re-friended me even though we run into reach other on other LJs all the time - after a year or more, you can't help but take it personally.