posted by [identity profile] quietdarkness.livejournal.com at 02:15pm on 20/02/2008
I have a couple-three journals that don't have me friended. In my case it's because they have something I might want. One is a jewelry seller's blog, and a couple of others are artist's blogs.

I'm here for the social life. Usually I let people friend me, and I friend them back. I've been invited to friend someone before and did so and then that person never friended me back. That sort of hurt, so after about 6 months, I defriended her.

I guess I take the passive approach to friending, but I'm really over the average age of a LJer, and I 'd feel funny friending strangers that were 30 years younger than I am without their permission: )
 
posted by [identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com at 08:42pm on 20/02/2008
I've guerilla-friended a lot of people over time (I rather think I did that to you, actually - I was deeply impressed that you'd met Alex the Parrot *g*) and I've no problem with people doing the same for me - I have a notice to that affect on my profile. If I'm friended I usually check the befriender out - if I like the look of em, I friend back, if I don't, I don't. I'm having to assume some people out there haven't liked the look of me so I think the time has come to let them go.

Is age relevant on LJ? I mean, I'm 107, honestly; it's on my profile. It must be true.

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