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panik ([personal profile] panik) wrote2010-01-02 10:13 am
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Amongst my many gifts, I got 'Family Tree Maker 2010'

Which carries the proud boast, 'No 1 selling family history software!' It includes a 6 months membership of Ancestry (wow, that thing is expensive!) and 50% off the cost of an ancestry DNA test. (meep. Wonder what that will show up?).

So last night I took it out of its box and fired it up on the ole' Compaq.

I've been looking at Dad's family - my mum's side are quite posh, well documented and decidedly dull, tbh (a long, long line of forkers, as a friend once put it). Dad's, much more of a mystery and it's been interesting to see who they were and where they came from but most of all - good golly, those people had harsh lives!

Let's take the Beresford's of Crich on my dad's grandmother's maternal line. Living in one small workman's cottage (basically the same sort of place I live in now, a front room, a back kitchen, a bedroom and a loft, earth closet out the back - in Crich! Lol. That house, if it still exits, will probably set you back at least quarter of a million these days, but I digress).

From the 1851 census, we have: James Beresford, age 64, working as a limestone quarryman. His wife Martha, 60, son Joseph, 36, and James 34, both limestone quarrymen, Joseph's wife Elizabeth, 36, washerwoman, granddaughter Harriett (sic) age 11 and Alfred aged 9, both working as cotton mill gleaners. Also a lodger (where did they put him? Remembering my Dad grew up one of 9 children in a house smaller than this), James Hunt, age 70 also working as a limestone quarryman. There's a long list of dead babies in the births and deaths.

Never ever let me complain about my pathetic life of ease ever again.

I''m also finding a lot of  family lore coming true. I got to the Beresford's via a widowed great aunt Theresa, living with my great grandparents when my grandpa was a child, in 1901. In the  1891 census, she's still down as a widow, listed as 'head of house' at another address, living with an older brother (that seems unusual for the time? Assume she was the main earner, the name on the rent book?) whose name is James MacKay (yes Sentinel peeps! Tis in the very blood!) listed as being born, not in Sheffield like all the rest but in Weedon barracks (which I believe is in Northamptonshire) - My Dad (James) was told he was named for a Scots ancestor who emigrated to America, so this looks a promising lead.

Another family story is that the family had ancestors in Eyam at the time of the plague who are listed in the great book there and, indeed, I find a branch of the poor Beresfords in Eyam in the 1851 census, I'll have to dig and see if they were there in the 17C.

I've only used it for an evening, barely scratched the surface of what the software does yet but, cool, ain't it? *g* A terrible time-waster but decidedly cool. I might have a crack at gramma's side next, see what that turns up before we get too far back and it starts getting tricky. I have dad's family back to the mid 18C now but I suspect it'll get harder as we travel further back - not helped by the fact we have a plethora of names like George Walker, James Walker and etc who are like needles in a haystack in this bit of Yorkshire. Best of all, Dad, who reckoned he couldn't remember 'anything' did start to remember - names, addresses, stories - as I asked 'is this him? Is this the one?' over and over. it's been great for him, too but gosh, I miss my mum for all of this, she'd have remembered everything. ::sigh::

I found Mum's sister, too; Joan Foster, d. 1928 age 2 yrs, there amongst the vast list of under 5s, lest we forget how bloody lucky we are to live when we do.

ETA: OMG! Heavy heavy sudden snow! It was blue and clear and thick with frost when I started writing this. Oh wow, that's a lot of snow, falling on ice, there goes my stroll in the woods. Better stay in and eat a mince pie I think, for purely medicinal purposes of course, fortitude against this terrible weather. ::nod::

[identity profile] miwahni.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 10:49 am (UTC)(link)
That's so cool! It's interesting to trace back, see where your roots are. One of my 50th birthday presents was a thick binder full of family history, and a huge long wall scroll showing family tree back to the 1600s. My stepmum is really heavily into genealogy and spent hours compiling, tracing, obtaining copies of certificates of BDMs etc.
Once upon a time in Oz no-one wanted to uncover a convict past; now it's considered quite the social thing to have ancestors who came out on the First Fleet. No such claims to fame here though.

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 12:39 pm (UTC)(link)
It's great to have that, isn't it? My mum's family are very well documented too, people with property invariably are ;o) - Mark is busy as I write this, loading it to his lappy to trace his mum's family. His Dad's are rather distinguished and terribly well-documented, albeit on the bar sinister. *g*

I'm always amused when aussies proudly boast about the convict ancestor, dispatched to Botany Bay by the wicked, wicked poms, forgetting that rather a large proportion of said ebil poms were actually the parents, sisters, wives, aunties etc. of the convicts and really not responsible for what was being done by the judicial classes and their ilk. Sad not to have one in the ancestry though, I'd be quite pleased to find one myself.

Nice choice of icon, btw. :o)

[identity profile] miwahni.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, the whole "dispatched to Botany Bay" thing is more pride that one's ancestry includes an original settler. Ebil poms are only ebil when they beat us at cricket! *g*
When I read your reply in my inbox I couldn't remember which icon I'd used - twas your AotB one which I love like crazy, and just seemed kinda relevant.

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 12:55 pm (UTC)(link)
So, very very rarely evil then. *G*

squeaks: Bob Fossil! He really don't like cricket!
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[identity profile] snailbones.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 11:31 am (UTC)(link)


Wow - fascinating stuff - I had no idea that family history software was so good now. ::wets lips and eyes bank balance:: The death of babies really brings you up short, doesn't it? My mum's mum was one of the youngest of her family, and she once told me that there were 23 children, although we can only find actual evidence for about 10 making it to adulthood. Presumably there are 13 or so babies out there somewhere, buried and forgotten. It doesn't help that they re-used names of dead children; I only discovered very recently I had two Aunt Mays - the one I adored who lived into her 90s, and the one she replaced who died at a few months of age. So sad.

And you've got more snow? We had a sort of powdery dusting last night that froze into the frost, and everything is pale and sparkly this morning. Mince pies cure many of life's ills. I think I'll go take a dose myself.

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 12:47 pm (UTC)(link)
It's the link to Ancestry that makes it work, tbh, without that it'd all be terribly hard work. Alas subscriptions start at £84 so I shall have to make good use of my 6 months I think, unless I find I can't live without it. :o)

omg, 23 children! It's hideously sad, they must have felt the loss just as keenly as we would and to lose so many, it hardly bears dwelling on. I knew about Joan, she was remembered, but in my grandad's family, next under him was a baby girl, Ever who Dad knew nothing about. She was 8 months old in 1901 but I can find no further mention of her anywhere, despite it being such an unusual name. I'm assuming, since Dad knows nothing of an Auntie Ever, that she died but can;t find her in the deaths.

One hideous story I only found out about just before Mum died was that my Grandma (Dad's mother) had a sister who was abducted and murdered at the age of 8. They were so matter of fact about it too, like it was an old family story everyone knew but I only heard a couple of years ago. Like I say, all so unimaginably sad but - looking at the lives they led, working at 9, popping out a baby a year by the time they were 17, it's hardly surprising so many died so young. :o(

It's snowing heavily here, now. I promised myself I'd lay off the rich foods today but I do feel the loreli lure of a hot mince pie and cream right now...
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[identity profile] snailbones.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 01:22 pm (UTC)(link)


a sister who was abducted and murdered at the age of 8.

Oh lord, how awful... and I know what you mean about the matter of factness - my family all seemed to accept what to me was great tragedy like it was nothing much, just the way life was. Maybe that was the only way to survive it.

It's great that your research is jogging your dad's memory... and keep up the good work with the mince pies - you're making me feel less guilty *g*

[identity profile] discord26.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 12:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Be careful...genealogy is like crack. Once you get started it may take an intervention to get you away from it.LOL I started three years ago and I've found and fully sourced three thousand relatives/ancestors back to the 15th century. I've finally taken a break but I'm almost ready to dive in again.

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 12:51 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL! yeah, I've been reading your genealogical adventures. It is interesting, it is with Dad's family anyway because I know so little about them. Mum's family is already done back to the 13C, maybe beyond (though some of the earlier stuff is a little dubious if you ask me). They never really did anything or went anywhere but Dad's family seem far more interesting, hewers of wood and drawers of water that they were.

[identity profile] fingers.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 01:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh sounds really interesting .... and fun.

We have the white stuff here - almost can't see anything but snow...

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 02:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Snow! Meep! It's not that thick underfoot yet (though we still have plenty from before Christmas) but it's falling on thick ice and coming doen hard.

Enjoy your snow, stay safe, keep the Bev warm for me. :o)

[identity profile] fingers.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 02:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Bev is at Carlisle, we managed to get her to a train over here this morning ... I was going to drive her back but we're scheduled for snow and ice for the next four days or so...But unfortunately as she was on the way to Carlisle they have had major problems between Lancaster and Preston and all the trains are cancelled... But she's got a hotel room and changed her ticket to tomorrow....(Room apparently has free internet so she's going to blog ablout it later!)

Ahhhh!

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 02:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Poor baby! I know how it feels to be stuck like that (1980: 7 hours, Sheffield to Manchester, frost ferns on the inside of the windows) so glad she's got herself a warm berth for the evening.

Stay warm sweetie and remember, snow is just God's way of telling us to eat more.

[identity profile] knitty-woman.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 05:43 pm (UTC)(link)
About 15 years ago I got my mom FTM - she never used it, and I took it. My son had a heritage project a couple of years ago, and while he was bored stiff, I got really inspired. Even with old software, I was amazed at how much I was able to find out. I can only imagine what new stuff is included in the current edition. And I think I got a 30-day free trial on Ancestry.com, which was extremely useful. Six months free - that's quite a gift. Have fun!

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 05:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I am indeed having fun, thankee kindly, but it's such an eater-upper of time! Did you get back far? Find anything interesting? Mine is quite mundane and rather heartbreaking so far, but fascinating for all that.

[identity profile] knitty-woman.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 06:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Not too much interesting, although at this point it's mostly just names and data. For me, the most interesting things are on my husband's side of the family. He's Japanese American, and his relatives in the US had to go into internment camps during WWII. His father enlisted in the army and fought as part of an all-Japanese regiment in Italy. Nothing nearly so unusual on my mother's side. But still. Maybe I'll give it another go soon - as someone here posted, it really is a lot like crack!

[identity profile] snycock.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 06:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, that's amazing - I had no idea that genealogy programs were that well-referenced. Sounds like a good way to while away the hours while it snows there... :-)

[identity profile] frostdoll.livejournal.com 2010-01-02 07:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I really enjoy hearing about people family history! Most probably because my family was never into sharing this kind of stuff and compared to some I don't know a whole lot about great-grandparents or so.

I was just talking about your post with my parents (65 years old) over dinner, while my mother recalls something (if pressed) my father hasn't any story about his father's family so he went into a huff when we pointed out his side wasn't into talking about family matters.
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[personal profile] hermitsoul 2010-01-03 04:21 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, genealogy! So very addictive, so potentially expensive, but so, so rewarding! *sigh*

Thankfully, in America most libraries I've been to have subscriptions to Ancestry as does the Latter Day Saint's church (not a member, but they do share their research facilities with non-members). Plus, I found quite a bit of information through Rootsweb and other free volunteer projects.

[identity profile] bennys-mum.livejournal.com 2010-01-04 07:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Oooh! I love genealogy! I have a trial version of Reunion that's years old, but no one felt it worth while to give me the full version, despite my many requests.

When i look for info, it's usually through the canadian archived which doesn't get me that far. I have boxes of family info in my basement though!

There's a canadian show called Ancestors in the Attic. It's very cool. I'm almost out of time for the moment, but I'll try to come back a little later in the day and tell you about it.

[identity profile] bennys-mum.livejournal.com 2010-01-04 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
So, Ancestors in the Attic has a somewhat goodlooking but rather dorky host, and then there's an archivist. Each episode, they try to answer someone's genealogical question, like, "am I related to Sir Wilfrid Laurier." One episode was very cool. There was a black woman who was born in england, but had lived most of her life in canada, and was told stories all her life about what it was like to live in... Shoot I don't remember, one of the islands below the states. They did a dna test, which might be the same as what you mentioned above, and that told them, definitely, two of the African groups she was descended from. So then, they took her to Africa to let her meet one of the groups. It was very cool! They usually take the person somewhere, since large portions of the canadian population have not been here all that long.

Anyway, I really like the show. I don't know if there are others like it, but it's cool!

[identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com 2010-01-05 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds a little like 'who do you think you are', a BBC show where they take a celebrity and find their family tree. They often check on the DNA. Colin Jackson (athletes) was fascinating. His family came to the UK from St Lucia but his DNA showed a fascinating mixture of West African, Scots and Arouak.

I'll let you know what we find if we decide to go with the DNA test. *g*

[identity profile] bennys-mum.livejournal.com 2010-01-05 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
It's very possible it's based on it, but it's not celebrities. Sounds cool though!

Please do! That would be cool! I think you should do it! :)