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posted by [personal profile] panik at 02:49pm on 05/05/2006 under
We handed over the keys to the house in Liverpool today after a busy morning emptying out the loft and all the last minute stuff you have to do. Mark spent a good while just walking through the rooms, sitting on beds, looking out the windows... He lived in that house, on and off, since he was a week old when his Mum brought him home from the hospital, so - a lot of memories. For me too. Mark was back living at home when I met him in '82 and I have very fond memories of that house, too.

I took cuttings from the apple tree that was Mark's Mother's Day present for 1968 - a really huge tree now, currently full of blossom, and where our 2 dogs are buried. Then we took a lot of pictures, at the house and in the neighbourhood in general; said goodbye to all the neighbours - then, just as we were leaving, the new people arrived to have their first proper look so we got to meet them in the end (first time we have). A very young, very sweet couple - they seem really nice.

We both had a cry on the stairs before we left. Closing the door for the very last time, knowing you'll never be back, was very strange. So, we're both a little sad and subdued. Now we have to get our own house done up and on the market... What joy.
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posted by [identity profile] suemc.livejournal.com at 04:54pm on 05/05/2006
Oh!!!!! lots of hugs Gilly, I glad you have finally managed to sell it, so you can put all that behind you now, but it must be very sad for you and Mark, I will send as many happy thoughts your way as I can, and you should go out and do something fun this weekend to take your minds of it.
 
posted by [identity profile] arnie1967.livejournal.com at 07:01pm on 05/05/2006
Oh, Gill, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I really do hope you both feel better about it soon. ::hugs::
 
posted by [identity profile] gillyp.livejournal.com at 07:11pm on 05/05/2006
Thank you both. We're having a relaxing evening with a nice bottle of VERY good (for us anyway - tbh, we consider anything over £2.99 a *good* bottle and this was WAY beyond our usual plonk :G:)Chardonnay. We're both feeling s little better now - getting used to seeing stuff from Mark's Dad's place here in our house. Very strange!

I went for a long, hard walk on the moors this evening to de-stress. Gosh, it's gorgeous out there! It really is a fabulous spring.
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posted by [identity profile] snailbones.livejournal.com at 07:37pm on 05/05/2006
I've been thinking about you guys today - sorry it was so hard, but I'm not surprised. Closure is good, but it hurts.

Enjoy the wine - spoil yourselves. ::hugs::
 
posted by [identity profile] betagoddess.livejournal.com at 08:04pm on 05/05/2006
*hugs* I've lost several of the places I loved while growing up and it doesn't get any easier. I'm glad you have so many happy memories of Mark's home. =>}

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